this is my new year's resolution - this year i will do my best to learn to say no. all my life i have been suffering because i have this crazy fear of upsetting people. that is why i almost always think about others in the first place. if i don't want to do something or don't want to go somewhere - i end up worrying about people asking me for this or that.
but it complicates my life so much. because all such stories end up in an even bigger confusion. i can't refuse, then i postpone, then i promise, then postpone and then in the end i try to say no, and it's always too late, somebody gets even more upset, the situation becomes even harder and i can never find way back from that labyrinth.
sounds great ha? so this year, all this is going to change!
but it complicates my life so much. because all such stories end up in an even bigger confusion. i can't refuse, then i postpone, then i promise, then postpone and then in the end i try to say no, and it's always too late, somebody gets even more upset, the situation becomes even harder and i can never find way back from that labyrinth.
sounds great ha? so this year, all this is going to change!
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